Saturday, November 22, 2008

What's saddest...?

What's saddest about having an expat dad?
He leaves for Hajj (pilgrimage) and you can't even hug him goodbye.
:(

He's having a birthday on this coming 3rd of December, and you can't throw a simple party for him.
:(

You miss those dad-daughter times you spent together, and wish it were that time of year again.
:(

Ah well, I'm getting too bluesy.
Anyways, to all those who are on pilgrimage:
Hope you have a makbool (accepted by God) and mabroor (blessed) pilgrimage.
Have a safe journey!

9 comments:

Mohua said...

Thats sad :(
Now you are making me miss my dad all d more & i am getting all senti.

A daughter said...

The saddest is when you are jealous of other girls who's fathers love them more than yours ever did.

Raphael said...

@daughter- so u r sad? i guess being loved lesser is sadder than missing someone who loves u a lot.
u r ryt. what u said is sadder than what i said.

@ mohu-mebbe we should bgin a "i miss dad" club together!

Vee... said...

thats sad. wishing ur dad a safe journey! and btw, liked the song Taeyeon that started playing when i opened ur page - donno what language it is though.

Raphael said...

@ vEE,
thanks! the song is a south korean solo by kim taeyeon. painfully beautiful...

Bluebutterfly said...

Lol. good post.
there are so many things you know.
fom anniversaries to birthdays to simple festival days.
its bad, missing him and all.

Hashan Hazarika said...

alhamdulillah...Eid Mubarak to all!!

I'll try 2 be truthful said...

my dad's not an expat , but ya i've grown up more with my mom than dad , but all the months that he stays with us , he more than makes up for his absence,spoils me like anything & u know wat we speak in hindi with my dad . wats so weird in that u think?? well coz me n my bro speak in hindi only with friends and each other :)

Raphael said...

@ hashan hazarika! new reader! yeah! thank you! he's in mecca, just done tawaf and heading back to mina.

@ truth- hey, i thought u spoke hindi!